Safety guide

Meeting someone in person

Plan the first meeting so you stay in control of where you go, how you leave, and who knows your plans.

Before you meet

  • Choose a populated public place and meet there independently.
  • Tell a trusted person where you are going and when you expect to return.
  • Arrange your own transportation and keep your phone charged.
  • Consider a brief voice or video call before meeting.

During the meeting

  • Keep personal belongings and drinks with you.
  • Leave whenever you feel uncomfortable—you do not need to explain or be polite.
  • Do not rely on someone you just met for transportation or a place to stay.

Afterward

If something concerning happened, write down what you remember, preserve relevant messages, and report the account. Contact local emergency services for immediate danger.